The beauty of the appearance does not always indicate the beauty of the essence, the beauty of your appearance may impress the people, but all this admiration will go down in vain if this beauty does not support the beauty of the soul, so to be admired by the others you have to be tactful, polite, nice, the beauty of the soul is much more important than beauty appearance.
Each of us tries to attract the attention of others and get their admiration, and hope to get the love of everyone around us, trying in various ways to be attractive and nice personality, because it gives us a sense of complacency, but it is not so easy, how many people lost a lot of his relationships, because he is not good at dealing with others.
The most important things you must follow to enjoy the personality attractive and nice, are:
- Listen to the talk of others and never interrupt him, and leave the other party always free to talk, it feels the other party the importance of his speech for you.
- Always pick your words well before you start talking, and try to choose good words close to the heart that will bring you closer to the hearts of others.
- Try to help people around you as much as you can.
- If you feel compelled to talk about the flaws of others, you have to choose the soft and indirect words.
- Always focus on the positive and beautiful things others have.
- Always keep your smile, as smile is the shortest way to reach the hearts of others.
- Always think carefully before you speak or act.
- To give you orders and to intervene in what does not concern you will alienate others from you.
- Always be yourself, and do not indulge in your talk and your actions with others.
- You should not be aware of your own difficulties and problems. Others are not obliged to participate in them because no one is free of his problems.
- Try as much as possible to understand who is around you, and share the joys and sorrows of others.
- Do not be arrogant about those around you, it will alienate them from you.
Show your admiration for others. Everyone always likes to be praised, but it should be timely, not hypocritical. - Always give an area of optimism to others, so that he is reasonably optimistic and not imaginative.
- Always accept criticism from others, especially constructive criticism, because this will strengthen your personality.
- Be fun and take things smoothly, and do not make others sad.
- You should always enjoy the good heart and the psyche of good.
- Always be honest with yourself, and with others.