The existence of children in the lives of any couple is a blessing from God, but the task of parents is difficult and not easy. This child, who we are now playing and meet his wishes, is in the future who will build the society and depend on it the strength of the nation. Therefore, the way parents raise their children and improve their personality is what determines their identity. In the future, then be a father and be either not easy subject, but a common responsibility to produce a generation capable of taking responsibility and the consequences of different life.
One way to develop your child’s personality is to follow these tips:
- In the beginning you have to be patient and you have the capacity of the chest, this process does not need to nerve unity in the nature and speed of results, this is what you try to instill some things inside is a small living organism and not a robot working on the implementation of orders only.
- You have to listen to your child and let him express his feelings and what is going on in his head. This helps him to feel his own self, and to talk with him in a nice and positive manner and do not try to impose your opinion on him. This may be useful when he is young but in the future he will become rebellious or weak. What we do not want.
- Give him the opportunity to choose in some things and help him to choose the good and make him feel the responsibility when the choice, it makes him able to make decisions in the future and take responsibility for his selection.
- You should not return to give him your interest and care for something, it increases the confidence in himself, and at the same time do not underestimate the meaning and meet his wishes so as not to get used to it and become his method in life.
- Try to give the child some tasks at home to do, and praise the success and correct what may be wrong.
- Do not try to compare your child to his peers or brothers in front of him, or try to criticize him in front of you thinking that this urges him to behave in a good way, contrary this method may increase jealousy negative and can lead to hatred and hatred, and can lead to the weakness of confidence in the future.
- Not to leave the child in front of the television alone and for long hours, but try to occupy him with games that develop his skills and abilities.
- Try to be a good example in front of him. Children have a desire to imitate those around them, especially the parents, so if you want to implant certain qualities you have to be applied first.
- Promote his successes, and give him rewards for his achievements, this encourages him to continue to excellence and success.