Neurosis
Neuropathy is a common feature of many individuals, whether adults or even children, but the nervousness of adult individuals varies and their causes differ from the nervousness of children. It is known that there are many things that create nervousness in children, leading to the emergence of a nervous child , What are the causes and causes of nervousness in children? What are the solutions to get rid of this bad trait since childhood?
Nerve causes in children
The most common psychological problems in children are problems acquired by the child from the external environment, that is not innate and not inherited, which is a positive thing for the family; because the acquired behavior may be solved and addressed; because of external factors, and nervousness is one of the psychological and behavioral problems that Are acquired by young people, and nervousness and obstinacy are messages sent by the child to his mother and father as a way to complain to them about something or to raise their attention to something, at the same time can not express the feelings of the child to speak, so parents must receive the message and understanding well, and work on finding The problem and the search for appropriate solutions to them without neglecting the wishes of the child’s feelings and needs.
It is important for parents to stand by children to get rid of this bad behavior so as not to remain attached to it, and it is a manifestation or a major sign in the formation of the child when old; because if it remains in this situation may arise a teenager and then become a neurologically nervous and thus a nervous father, and inherits nerve to his children and grandchildren And the generations that come after him through inheritance, and this has nothing to do with the strength of personality, but is evidence of weakness of personality, and the existence of a problem in psychology, and this is what the Hadith indicates in the words of the Prophet, peace be upon him: (( The strong who has himself in anger )).
Role of family in getting rid of nerve
It is known that there are educational reasons to increase the rate of nerve in the child; such as the method of parents and the method used in raising the child, as reflected in the construction of his character, for example, dealing with the child in a way that devalues, such as the use of intensity in dealing with him or physical torture, Such as yelling at him, punishing him and putting him down in front of people, is what creates a mentally ill child, and thus a nervous child, and parents should help their children to get rid of this bad behavior, through a number of steps including:
* Building family and marital relations based on friendliness and understanding.
* The spirit of tolerance and cooperation and the spread of calm and tranquility in the atmosphere of the family.
* To stay away from nervousness by using the art of education story, by reading the various stories on the child before the immortality to sleep, and to highlight the difference between the stories: as if the mother tells the child the story of a child quiet to have beautiful features, and the name of the child in the story has to do with the name of her child, Age and live in a similar environment, so that the child will be quiet personal character and change from nerve to calm and positive.