Dear Mother, Your child always thinks as you do and as you think, so you must improve your good qualities in your child. It is important to be aware of the causes of your child’s fear and to know how to convince him not to be afraid.
Older children say that our children walk on the ground, and teach us that fear is the norm of all of us. Modern science has come to prove this, and then we can control the instinct of fear in our children so that they can live with what they fear. And is apprehensive about it.
If your child is afraid of pets such as a cat, dog, cock or chicken, try to convince him that these pets do not hurt a person, as long as he does not harm her, but become a friend to him, for example, not to catch cat and his hand on her tail or some of them Or scribbled and therefore will not hurt him.
And if your child is afraid to hear the sounds of animals at night, tell him that she can never enter the house because we closed the door well and that these animals can never open the door and it is good if you take your baby dear mother to make sure the door is locked well and invite him to see animals outside the house The window even reassures and leaves him fear and anxiety.
If your child has fears of darkness, hold on to his hand and go with him until you make a lamp if the current is cut off.
If your child is afraid to stay alone or afraid to go to the bathroom alone ask him why he is afraid and why he fears and your home is beautiful there is no scary things and start with that you always be with him and then go a little bit gradually to get used to overcome his fear.
I do my utmost to love my mother not to show your fear of anything in front of him because it will plant the fear multiplied inside him and will not be able to overcome it and do not tell him about the things that you fear.
Avoid using caution, punishment and intimidation with your child because this will temporarily modify their mistakes, but the negative effects will be greater because intimidation will create panic and the child will be difficult to control or remove. Unfortunately, many parents fall into this mistake.
Always keep the courage inside your child. For example, if the world rains, tell him that you do not fear the sound of rain because your brave son with you and when his father returns from travel tell him in front of your child that you did not fear the sound of rain today because your brave son is with you. His self-confidence is enhanced, and he buys games for him to encourage him not to be afraid, and as I manage to watch cartoons that work to fight fear, encourage children and buy clothes that contain images of brave cartoon heroes.