The importance of guidance
The child needs all stages of his life to lead and guidance is not wise to leave alone in this life, the child’s psychological and mental abilities is not developed to the degree that can distinguish the full between good and evil, especially in the early stages of childhood, it is not strange to see a child puts his hand on the fire or on The hot teapot may be reprimanded and then go back and repeat the act again for not realizing the gravity of his work, and guiding the parents to the child about these dangerous actions protects him from harm and harm.
There are many ways to alert children and guide them about the correct behaviors, as this period is considered a critical period affected by the child’s psychology if the use of incorrect methods or inappropriate for age, must be followed the method of reward and punishment to stimulate the child’s proper procedures and love, The method of punishment is so that it is not harmful and brings the negative effects and the opposite result instead of the positive result. We do not want to reach an introverted child or feel cowardice and fear of people or vice versa.
Methods of punishment of children
In the beginning, it is necessary to avoid beatings or causing physical harm to the child because the child does not act with intent, but alternative methods of punishment must be followed in order to convey the information required for this child and keep it in his head.
- The direct consideration in the child’s eye is strong and sharp. This view suggests to the child that what a sinner is doing and that should be reversed.
- To converse with the child and speak with him in a calm and firm voice that this is not permissible, and try to make him understand the place of harm in his behavior, whether material or moral, and should not be done.
- The punishment room or sitting on the punishment chair where the child is entered into the punishment room or the punishment chair for a certain period of time and prevented from going out or get off the chair until the end of the period, and work to increase the time whenever he came out or removed from the chair before the end of the prescribed period.
- The child should be deprived of his favorite things such as playing games, deprived of playing with children or deprived of a good career, but not to cause emotional trauma to the child.
- And to boycott the child and not talk to him until he retreats from his sinful work with his confession.
- To stay away from using the method of comparison with his brothers or other peers, and must stay away from defaming the child among his friends about the wrong behavior that he did so as not to talk jealous of him towards his friends and brothers or suffered mental setbacks that may cause him a lot of mental and physical diseases.
- In the event that the child continues to behave wrongly and strongly and not to pay attention to all the methods of punishment here, a strike must be done on his hand or his ass is an unfair and harmless beating.