Child rearing
Each person is a different world. The stages of growth and psychological development that each person undergoes are different. He may move from a sense of calm to a feeling of emotion, from a sense of joy to a feeling of sadness. Therefore, man is a complex organism that needs skill and art in dealing With it, and childhood is one of the most difficult of these stages, the inability of the child to express himself in a correct manner and clear, in addition to not aware of what is going on in a proper manner, and therefore the education of children during this period of difficult and difficult tasks.
Raising children from birth
Not meeting all his requests
The newborn may cry to meet their needs and demands. Although it is the only way for newborns to express themselves, they may become accustomed to this method and continue as a means of expressing themselves as they grow older, leading to a major problem later and embarrassment. Especially when the child cries in front of a group of people outside the home.
Follow a balanced pattern of education
It is preferable to use the tenderness and calmness in dealing with children from birth to prevent the child from growing up and turning him into an aggressive child who can express himself only through violence. , And therefore a balanced pattern of education must be followed so that there is a soft and firm approach to dealing with the child.
Keep away from yelling
Screaming in the face of the child leads to the growth of intense fear within him, so the child grows up and is lacking in character and lacks the lowest self-confidence, and can not discuss around him, because he returns to silence, and may increase to the extent that beaten in school by his peers without He is defending himself.
Talk with the child
Talking with the child since his early days is important, increases the sound bond between him and his parents, and when he grows up the child will maintain this interdependence and tell his parents all things that happen with him, and follow the method of friendship and free discussion with the child as grown and mature.
Parental monitoring of their behavior
Both parents must clearly embody the rules in front of their children, since they are the mirror the child learns from birth to adulthood. Parents should respect one another as role models for children and ignore any differences that may arise between them for the benefit of children and refrain from pronouncing words So that the child does not lose respect for his parents or even hates them.
Respect the child in front of others
It is very important not to mention the disadvantages of the child and his mistakes in front of others, and prevents criticism of his actions in front of them as well, because doing so leads to the child’s embarrassment and weaken his personality, and insulting the child in front of his friends and colleagues increases his tendency for introversion and isolation.
Appreciation and reward when successful
The child should be appreciated for doing good in his behavior and behavior from birth, and reward him for his academic success when he grows up a little, in order to encourage him to continue this behavior.
Setting constants and borders
To avoid any problems or disagreements between parents and their children, there must be a definition of the parameters and limits that must be adhered to by the child, such as the bedtime and the number of hours watching television.
Love and Auctioneer
The child may not understand the meaning of the actions of his parents, but of course he understands and feel their love and their significance, which increases the strength of his attachment to them, and the growth of his personality to be a personal together not lacking in love and attention.