Neurosis
A person passes through situations in life that provoke his anger and make him lose control of his nerves, and then he must try to control his feelings and think carefully before taking any wrongful action, and we must know that the anger of the devil has warned our master Muhammad peace be upon him repeatedly of anger, Do not get angry, do not get angry, do not get angry. And tell the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, that the devil is present when the person is angry, so the person must not surrender to anger and try to get rid of it by changing the place or seek refuge from the devil, .
Reasons for lack of self control
- The inability to discuss successfully and successfully to reach the truth.
- There is a great deal of controversy in which a person is fully aware that he is wrong, because he is not self-confident and wants to satisfy his motives and desires.
- Insisting on opinion and not accepting advice; because he believes that changing his opinion is weaker than him, and resort to anger and emotion.
- Anxiety, stress and psychological pressure, and distance from religion and non-performance of prayer shyly.
- Lack of science, culture and contempt of opinions and people.
- Stress, continuous work and discomfort.
How to control anger
- A Muslim should be angry if he leaves the place where he is, and can change his position, such as sitting if he is standing, or sleeping if he is sitting, and these things help to get rid of the fit of anger that can control man.
- Wudoo ‘because it extinguishes the fire of the Shaytaan, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was told.
- A person should not be angry unless he is angry at the truth. It is not permissible to anger except in the case of violating God’s prohibitions, but this anger should not lead to offensive or inappropriate words or cause harm to others.
- One should not be angry at worldly matters such as violating tradition, and unfortunate because these things do not require anger.
- You should always seek excuses for others and not be angry at their various actions, and consider them a normal thing that does not deserve anger.
- If a person assaults you directly, you must know the reasons and motives that led him to this behavior, and try to discuss the reasons that prompted him to act.
- It is necessary to distinguish between the anger of Allah and His Messenger with adherence to the legal limits and borders, and the freedom of others and interference in their affairs.
- We must learn the art of fruitful dialogue and avoid sharp debates.
- Praise for people in the event of abuse, and help to strengthen the bonds of society.
- Commitment to the performance of worship, especially prayer and maintenance of reverence.