Personality and its components
Since childhood, the character of the human being has crystallized, and as the building blocks are the foundation of the building of the house, the childhood and the laying of trust in it are the foundation of the personality of the human being and make him a conscious and prominent person in his society. This depends on his self-confidence and his ability to stand up to the challenges of the coming days. Stages of his life and whereabouts.
Confidence in self
To promote self-confidence for children is of great importance and innumerable advantages at the family and community level. The more confident the child is, the more productive and interactive his or her children, friends, the school environment and its teachers will have, and the positive impact on his or her scientific level and experience in practical life. Tomorrow, a child who has gained confidence in himself and the trust of his family and pride in him can not be moved by something later.
How can I strengthen my son’s confidence?
So that my son is an effective individual to enhance his confidence in himself and strengthen his confidence in his people and the environment around him, how is the way to that? Every mother has a way to strengthen her child and have confidence in the appropriate amount that satisfies itself and makes it up to the ability to separate from parents or brothers and the surrounding and rely on himself, especially in the early stages of study, but here are some of the methods and suggestions that help you:
- In the beginning, if you see that his character is different from his brothers or peers and not at the required level, try as much as possible to avoid comparing him with his brothers or other children; because this destroys the child in a gradual and fundamental way without feeling, and causing hatred of those who torture him!
- Try to bring him closer to you and his father, and devote time to dialogue on a particular subject every day, Ihrih that has a view heard and expand the prospects of talking in his mind and open the doors of speech, which helps him build confidence in himself greatly.
- Try as much as possible to get him responsibilities as much as he can, and small tasks, such as help his younger brother in the arrangement of the room or buy some widgets or help his father .. Make him a leader in his home, which makes him take the position of the commander trying to control his affairs outside the house.
- I highly commend him for succeeding in the tasks and responsibilities that I have entrusted to him. The child sees that he has succeeded in overcoming the obstacles in the eyes of his mother before all, and I know that you are always proud of him even if he made a mistake.
- If he made a mistake in something that does not hinder him in front of anyone and try to understand the location of the mistake that occurred, the child may be wrong in the end but does not know where is the wrong part, otherwise it did not happen!
- Knowing that he “can” do anything he can think of and that nothing is impossible.
- In which I am aware of the noble Islamic principles and good morals, so make everyone who sees him praise him, raising his morale and confidence.
In the end you are the one who puts the brick above the brick in building your son’s personality and instilling confidence in himself to harvest what you wish your son to be in the future as a successful leader and an effective individual, take responsibility and leave you and his father in your days to come.